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What's meant to happen is:
* your display manager runs the /etc/pam.d/common-session stack, which
includes "session optional pam_systemd.so" from the libpam-systemd package
* pam_systemd tells systemd (pid 1) to start user@1000.service, which is
systemd --user, launching default.target by default
* default.target includes dbus.socket because
/usr/lib/systemd/user/sockets.target.wants/dbus.socket says so
* dbus.socket listens on $XDG_RUNTIME_DIR/bus
* the first time something connects to that socket, it starts dbus.service,
which is dbus-daemon --session --address=systemd: (plus some other options)
Presumably something has gone wrong somewhere in that chain of events?
If you can't tell what's wrong by comparing the chain of events I described
with what is actually happening on your system, here are some other things
that would be useful information:
Is there a "systemd --user" process running as your uid?
Is there a "dbus-daemon --session" process running as your uid?
Is anything D-Bus-related logged in the systemd Journal when you log in?
What does `systemd-cgls` say about these various services?
smcv